The world is all around us as we can know everything about it with the help of technology which comes in many forms. What happens in this world varies from region to region but there are certain aspects that remain constant simply because this world consists of and led by HUMAN BEINGS. Humans are the most wonderful creation of Mother Nature and have certain characteristics that define and unite various people all around the world. That is why movies, plays and books seem to explore human emotions so extensively as they yield so much sympathy from the audience that since time immemorial we have seen all sorts of fictional creations representing what our basic instincts always were. Some are imaginative and some are based on real incidents but all the same their objective is the same - to feed our emotional instincts.
Lately I have been reading romantic novels and watching romantic movies. No, I haven't developed an interest in romance over night. It's just that it has remained the most popular topic since really very long. And knowingly or unknowingly people have their own romantic fantasies that is fueled by fictional characters present all around us. In every movie that I watch which can be in any language or may span any culture there is a couple for certain which follow the universal law of attraction between the opposite sexes. The movie can not necessarily be romantic but can be based on any random topic or full of hardcore action but at least five to ten minutes are always dedicated to softer topics like love. Not only movies which are watched by almost all sorts of people but numerous books have been written describing this particular emotion which has got the privilege of driving people crazy. Since I am always surrounded by such stories and characters I felt the need to express what I feel about the fundamental law of attraction.
Its not as if I have got something special to express about love but it's just that I have formed many opinions about it after being constantly reminded of the exceptional power of this emotion. While being a child whenever I used to watch a couple dancing on the screen I wanted to dance around my home just in the same way imagining a boy of my age substituting the on screen hero. People may think that I was crazy to attempt to do such activities or this may seem to be the most hilarious thing but this is a very old secret that I am revealing publicly on my blog. This began my journey on the ride to my fantasy world which consisted of my own romantic scenarios with a boy being a product of my imagination and myself as the main protagonists. The boy was just the exact replica of my dream man or for that matter the so called Mr.Right. I am not an unusual or the first person in imagining my Mr. Right. Almost all girls do that but somehow there's something peculiar about the way I have imagined. I do not day dream - at least not about anything which is very close to my heart - except about my romantic fantasies. Neither did I ever day dream with my eyes open. But I did when I went into a romantic mood after reading a book or watching a movie and even for that matter after listening to my favorite romantic song. You see romance is surrounded all around me. I am certain to fall a victim to that. A pretty natural thing to happen.
Now you may think that if I had such strong fantasies and went on to create an entire movie in my head with we two being the main protagonists enjoying each other's company like nothing else and sharing each other's moments of happiness and sorrow with an almost dangerous desperation then how come I had not found a real person fulfilling the criteria of Mr.Right. But the thing is reality is very much different from fantasy and I never even attempted to consider anyone of that sort because I always felt as if I am too stupid to even project such fantasies leave alone considering them to have any connection whatsoever with the reality. Normally people think of somebody belonging to this planet. I think of someone who cannot be from this planet as he's the one who has been directly sent by God as His angel. Way too hypothetical and exaggerated fantasy.
Nobody who knew me (till now) had an idea that I can ever be romantic. It was simply because I never expressed it. But if I start explaining my fantasies it will take a full day to jot down everything with pen and paper. Now when I do it I am pretty honest in doing just that. But the fact is that ultimately everybody has to spend their life with their life partner irrespective of whether they have any fantasies or not. Some turn out to be ideal stories being one more copy of a happy ending romantic movie and other are horrible failures. But our world revolves around our partners only in any way and thus all those happy ending stories are after all doing a good job by inspiring us and inculcating in us a strong foundation of maintaining a cordial relationship with our life partners. Now it depends on both the people to turn their life into a heaven or a hell.
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